Presentasi Toefl yang berkesan-Ayah ^_^

Father is the figure of a man loving and very responsible to his wife and children.

He has been widely credited for building a beautiful family, it was he who had his family with great difficulty. Quite often we find a father doing a very tiring, for example a father who worked as a driver or Metromini public transportation, he was willing to leave their families, affected by traffic jams every day, and go home that night to support his family.

We see again a father who is a trader, he’d be willing to wait for hours until the buyers come to buy merchandise only to support his children and wife.

I have a story about a child who rebel against his father. The following story happened to a young man whose life has been in vain, The good deeds disconnected. He has a father who diligently worship and charity. His father often gave advice: “O my son! Beware not to slip at a young age. For indeed it is the road to punishment and that Allah has tortures and punishment of all it is not far away from people who do evil” That’s his father’s advice to their children.

When his father continued to provide advice to him, he actually grew rebellious and neglected their obligations.

One day his father gave advice again and warned him of bad deeds. But what happened? The boy held out his hand just mark threatened with fists to his father. He immediately hit him with punches that leave a scar.

The father saw the man who beat him if he was his son or not, as not believe, after the staggered but still conscious, eventually the father can see clearly that children who had been given advice even hit him.

With a blazing anger at the father’s chest, he said, “Son, you come from my coccyx. I have to educate you, serve you, teach you and will ensure you become a good boy. I have done good to you and has given all I get to you. I have been putting you on me in many ways, but you repay me with evil deeds like this. Really, I will report it all to God Almighty. ” Thus greeting his father with great disappointment to their children.

He stated the oath solemnly that he would go into the land of Al-Haram to perform Umrah and to pray to Allah from the House side, hopefully he is pleased to give sentence against this rebellious child who had expelled him from home and country and has provided disaster harm to him.

The father finally came out to travel, while his son still continues to blow the heat of the burning in joints.

After reaching the Al-Bait Al-Haram (Kaaba). He performed tawaf in the glorious Kaaba. He stood between the door of the Kaaba and the Black Stone. “O God of truth I have come unto Thee, O Essence is not a waste of people who pray to You earnestly, O Al-Wahid Ash Shomad. This is where people are not coming back because my son, the rebellious. So right Take me, O Merciful Essence of my children, is partially paralyzed his body with the power and strength from you. O Essence that we purify the childless and not begotten, “.

finally, the rebellious half the child’s body was on the right which he used to beat his father finally paralyzed like wood. He can not move unless there are other people who mengerakkannya. And finally always lying on her bed. He has lost enjoyment of life, he has parted ways with friends and people he loved. He eventually became the burden for others. With his father’s prayers had been answered, the strength that had been used to harm humans have been lost. God does not abuse him, but that’s child who had wronged himself. … Astaghfirulllah ….

Father was very involved in our lives, for example: 

1.         As providers and providers of facilities

When you need money to finance half of the money and life, the first person is my father frowned. Dad must have tried hard to find a way so that their children can feel the same with other friends.

When the request is no longer simply asking a new doll or toy, and I know he can not give you what you want. The words that came out of Dad’s mouth was: “No … No way! “

In fact in mind my father, he was eager to say “Yes dear, I’ll buy you a father.”

Did you know that at that moment my father feels failed to make her son smile?

We should be grateful for everything we use and we have now is thanks to our father business. 

2.         As the giver of protection

When you’ve got teenagers ….

You start demanding on my father for permission to go out at night, and my father was firm and said: “Not allowed!”. Did you know that my father did that to take care of you?

As for Dad, you are something very – very unusual precious. After that you’re mad at Dad, and entered the room, slamming the door. And who comes knocking doors and persuade you to not upset the mother.

Did you know that when my father closed his eyes and holding within his inner turmoil, That the father was eager to follow your wishes, but once again he MUST take care of you? … Dad did not try to be the best, but he’s just trying to

do our best …. 

3.         Decision maker and a good problem solver

Dad helps solve the problem of children and decision makers in the learning / school, regarding any steps taken by children in learning, check, and ask values obtained at school. When there are family problems she’s very wise to get it done, he very very rarely angry. 

4.         As an educator

Father always advised his son to study with diligence and achievement, what should and should not be done, reprimanded when their children fail the task and impose sanctions if deemed necessary. He was very patient in guiding children to become better again, although sometimes his attitude really hard but he wanted his son could. Dad just told you to do the job that you like. Father might not know the answer to everything, but he helps you search for it. Dad will not pamper you when you’re sick, but he will not sleep all night. Who knows you need it. 

5.         As a friend and playmate

Through the game with the kids, dad can joke / humor is healthy, can establish a good relationship so that problems, difficulties and stress can be issued, in the end does not interfere with learning and child development. 

6.         As figure

Father is responsible to teach about what it takes children to the next life in a variety of life through exercise and a good example so that a positive influence for children. 

7.         As a co-mother

Dad was always willing to accompany my mother shopping the market, often times he is also helping with homework and my mother when mother was sick, my father is also willing to replace the mother such as cooking, washing, and other homework.

Daddy Duties: 

1.         The warmth of love

Usually, for a grown daughter, who was working overseas, who joined her husband wander outside the city or abroad, who were at school or college away from both parents. Will often feel very missed by his mother. And what about Dad?

Maybe because she is more often called to see you doing every day, but do you know, if it turns out Dad was the one who reminds mother to call you?

Maybe once when you’re little, my mother was the one who more often take you told me, but you know that after my father worked and tired, looking at my mother’s father was always asking about are you and what did you do all day? 

2.         Avoiding the use of foul language

When our little girl’s father always forbid we follow the language of the less well even he can be angry if there are people who speak dirty in front of her son. He wanted to when we grow up, we are accustomed to speaking the language of good and proper. 

3.         Supervise children’s behavior,

By the time you are still a small child, my father usually teaches his son to ride a bike. And after my father could pick up, then I will release the auxiliary wheels on your bike. Then Mother said:

“Not yet Dad, do not be removed once the wheels help him.”

Mother feared son / daughter fell and injured sweetness.

But realize you?

That the Father with confidence will let you, look at you, and take care pedaled carefully because he knew his beloved son SURE CAN. 

4.         Discipline

Father wanted his children could be disciplined, because he is a very disciplined especially discipline of time. When you ask Dad to take you, dad is always ready for 10 or 15 minutes before you clean when you ask him to pick you up, he’s going to place it before you get out of the gate. 

5.         Keep them away from all sexual activity 

6.         Alienate the children from the illicit food

Father is a figure that should always look strong … even when he was not strong to not cry …

He should see the firm even when he wants to pamper you. .

And he was the first person who always believes that “YOU CAN” in all things ..

Let us love and respect our father, because he is also very great service to us.

Do not ever make him upset, give always the best for him and always make him smile for us.

Kalau baca artikel diatas jadi ingat waktu gue presentasi Toefl didepan kelas XII IPA2 sekitar bulan maret minggu-minggu setelah UAS…

Yang bikin terkesan dan selalu nempel diingatan gue soalnya gue nangis saat presentasi, padahal sebelumnya gak ada niatan dan pikiran gue buat nangis..

Walau pas presentasi gue agak gagap ngomongnya (mungkin karena artikelnya gue hafalin *tp gue paham qo artinya*, ditambah gue nangis makanya agak ngeblank dan ini pertama kalinya gue presentasi toefl) tapi beberapa teman gue ada yang nangis lho, hihi..

gak tau karena paham apa yang gue sampein atau emang karena ngeliat gue nangis makanya mereka ikut nangis yaa, hehe..

karena nangis dan ngeblank jadinya gak semua artikel diatas gue sampein, waktunya juga cuma 7 menit doank. Jauh sebelum presentasi waktu 7 menit itu dibayangan gue berasa 7 jam, apalagi kalau sampe lupa apa yang mau disampein mungkin terasa lebih lama lagi tapi pas presentasi 7 menit itu cepat banget dan itu belum cukup untuk gue menyampaikan materi yang udah gue hafalin dengan susah payah, hehe..

Dan jujur gue sendiri nangis bukan karena artikelnya yang bikin sedih tapi karena suatu hal.

Tepat hari selasa (gue lupa tanggalnya, yang jelas bulan maret 2011) orangtua gue dipanggil kesekolah karena nilai gue yang jelek, dan pastinya kalau urusan disekolah ayah gue yang ngurus. Ini baru pertama kalinya didalam hidup gue dari TK, SD, SMP dan SMA, ayah gue kesekolah karena dipanggil nilai gue jelek. Saat gue nerima surat panggilan itu (hari senin), gue sama teman-teman yang nasibnya sama kya gue biasa aja waktu disekolah, padahal gosipnya itu tentang nilai UAS dan kalau nilai UAS nya jelek otomatis gak bisa ikut UN. Deg-degan, takut, dan kecewa sih pasti tapi waktu itu gak bisa nangis. Pas sampe rumah, gue masuk kamar dan pikiran gue terus-terusan tertuju sama surat itu, banyak pertanyaan yang terus-terusan mengahantui gue sejak gue nerima surat itu.

gimana kalau itu beneran nilai UAS gue? gimana kalau gue gak lulus? apa jadinya kalau orangtua gue tau tentang hal ini? mereka marah gak ya?

gue nangis sejadi-jadinya, gue gak kuat nerima kenyataan kalau itu beneran nilai UAS dan gue gak lulus. Gue gak sanggup ngeliat wajah-wajah kecewa kedua orangtua gue, dan bahkan keluarga serta guru-guru gue…

gue benci banget sama diri gue sendiri waktu itu, gue anak yang gak tau diri, bego, tolol, bodoh, gue anak yang gak tau terimakasih, gue anak yang gak berguna. Gue udah ngecewain orangtua gue sendiri, orang yang selama ini paling berjasa banget dalam hidup gue, orang yang udah kerja keras buat gue sekolah, orang yang paling mencintai gue, sayang sama gue tanpa ngeluh apapun meski kadang gue nyebelin.

Gak mungkin gue sanggup ngeliat kekecewaan mereka, dan aaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrgggggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhh gue pengen teriak sekeras mungkin, dan gue berucap dalam hati kalau gue akan bunuh diri kalau sampe gak lulus.

Akhirnya gue putusin untuk gak ngasih surat itu dulu ke orangtua gue biar gue agak tenangan dulu, gue gak mau nangis saat ngasih surat buruk itu.

Pas malam harinya gue beraniin diri buat ngasih surat itu ke ayah gue, dan gue gak bilang kalau itu tentang nilai UAS. Gue cuma bilang besok disuruh kesekolah jam 08.00. Ayah gue tanya “soal UN ya pasti” dan gue cuma bilang “iya kaya’a”.

Keesokan harinya gue sekolah dengan perasaan sama kaya kemarin, gue takut pulang, gue takut dimarahin.

Pas baru sampe dikelas, gue cerita-cerita sama teman gue yang bernasib sama, gimana reaksi orangtua saat terima surat itu. Dan air mata gue netes, gue masih takut kalau gue benar-benar gak lulus.

Sampe akhirnya tiba pelajaran toefl, pelajaran jam ke 3 dan 4 pada hari selasa. Sebenarnya saat itu emang giliran gue sama 4 orang teman gue untuk presentasi toefl, karena dikelompok A memang tinggal kita berlima yang belum tampil tapi bisa aja waktu itu gue gak jadi tampil karena CD kelas XII IPA2 yang isinya materi buat presentasi itu hilang. Kata guru toefl gue yang bernama Pak Dadan yang bawa cadangannya boleh presentasi hari ini dan gue bawa cadangan itu diflashdisk. Tadinya sih sempat gak mau tampil tapi sekarang ataupun nanti-nanti kan sama aja. Dan akhirnya gue yang terakhir dipanggil untuk presentasi dari 3 teman gue yang juga bawa cadangannya. Pas saat gue cerita tentang anak yang durhaka pada ayahnya airmata gue tiba-tiba netes dan mengalir gitu aja, wajah ayah gue muncul dan pikiran gue tertuju sama masalah dipanggilnya orangtua gue. Gue coba tahan dan berhenti bicara beberapa detik tapi tetap aja keluar terus airmatanya. Hingga akirnya 7 menit itu berakhir dengan applause dari teman-teman dan Pak Dadan, saat gue duduk air mata gue semakin deras.

Beberapa menit kemudian Pak Dadan manggil gue, beliau bilang sesuatu yang bikin gue bangga dan gak akan pernah gue lupain. Yang intinya seperti ini:

Pak Dadan: tadi cerita kamu bagus, bagus, menyentuh banget, saya juga terharu, saya merasakan, cuma seharusnya kamu bisa lebih dari ini supaya semuanya bisa ikut terbawa sama cerita kamu

gue: tapi tadi juga ada tuh Pak beberapa yang ikut nangis, hehe

Pak Dadan: iya i know tapi lain kali kamu pasti bisa lebih bagus presentasi didepan masyarakat suatu saat nanti dengan cerita ini, yaa?

gue: iya Pak makasih yaa

Gue gak nyangka Pak Dadan bakalan bilang kaya gitu, mungkin dia kira gue nangis karena cerita anak durhaka itu dan karena kebayang wajah ayah gue, emang benar karena kebayang wajah ayah gue, gue juga bilang ke Pak Dadan kalau wajah ayah gue tiba-tiba muncul di pikiran gue tapi kalau soal cerita anak durhaka itu gak benar soalnya waktu pertama kali baca artikel itu aja gue gak sampe nangis cuma sedih dan berkaca-kaca doank mata gue. Seandainya hari itu bukan hari dipanggilnya orangtua gue karena nilai gue yang jelek, gue juga gak akan bisa nangis. Gue nangis karena gue gak sanggup ngeliat wajah orangtua gue pulang sekolah nanti, gue udah ngecewain mereka.

Pas istirahat gue udah mulai tenang, walau masih berbekas wajah nangis gue tapi gue tetep kekantin sama teman gue. Tapi pas sampe kantin nafsu makan itu hilang. Akhirnya gue ke kopersi aja buat beli air mineral, lontong dan chiki. Sewaktu balik dari kantin menuju kopersi gue ngeliat ayah gue yang lagi dimotor mau pulang karena acaranya udah selesai, lagi-lagi airmata gue jatuh. Gue gak kuat ngeliat wajah ayah gue, gimana nanti pulang sekolah?? untung beliau gak ngeliat gue karena memang jaraknya jauh.

Setelah acara itu selesai gue tanya sama teman-teman gue yang nanya sama orangtuanya tentang acara tadi, ya Allah Alahamdulillaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhh buanget ternyata itu bukan tentang nilai UAS yang jelek tapi tentang nilai try out UN yang terakhir kalinya yang kurang baik dan itu gak mempengaruhi nilai kelulusan. Huuuuufffffffttthh perasaan gue legaaaaaaaaaaaa buagett, walau masih takut buat dimarahin pulang sekolah tapi gue gak takut buat pulang kerumah..

Pas sampe rumah gue lewat pintu belakang, tepat setelah gue buka pintu terlihat ayah gue lagi didapur bersihin motornya, pas beliau ngeliat gue, beliau senyuuumm dan bilang “nilainya tuh pit kurang” dan gue tanya “tapi bukan nilai UAS kan?”, ayah gue “bukan, cuma nilai try out doank” dan abis itu ayah gue cerita tentang acara tadi…

Hehehehe ternyata apa yang gue takutin sama sekali gak terjadi, dari nilai UAS yang jelek, gak lulus, dimarahin orangtua abis-abisan dan jadi anak yang paling gak berguna. Alhamdulillahhirabbil’alamin ya ALLAH, makasih bangeeeeeeettttt, cuma itu kata-kata yang bisa gue ucapin saking senangnya. Dan ternyata ada manfaatnya juga dari kejadian ini, gue jadi bisa nangis saat presentasi toefl, coba seandainya gue gak nangis pasti kurang bagus presentasi gue, se’gaknya dengan gue menangis bisa menutupi kegagapan gue saat presentasi, hahaha…

Sekarang gue udah lulus dengan nilai yang cukup baik, dengan rata-rata nilainya 8,0..

Alhamdulillah ya Allah, love YOU buangeeeeeeeeeetttt, ngeeet, ngeeetttt….

Thank you very much my beloved mother, my beloved father, my beloved family, my beloved teachers and all  my friends..

cuuuuuuuuuuuuuupppppppppppssss ^_^